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Behavioral Programming working for readers!

I’ve been getting lots of texts and emails regarding my book and how people use it in every day life. I’ve selected a few to share with you to show how varied and widespread it can be used.

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#1 I work in a covert capacity for a law enforcement entity and have worked with a multitude of confidential human sources in the course of my career. There are always challenges in this type of work and Kelly Alwood’s philosophies, in this book Behavioral Programming, speak to those issues with practical and applicable techniques.
One example of application ocurred when I was developing a new human source; we will call her Fatimah. I wanted to identify the best approach to build a rapport with her and determine her potential motivation. Due to time constraints, I needed to recruit her as soon as possible and remembered Kelly’s coined technique of “Brute Force Brain Hacking”, which is often used for a “difficult” target of recruitment but in my case was an issue of limited time. I needed to put a full court press on Fatimah to successfully recruit her without jeopardizing the newly developed rapport. I recalled three techniques from Kelly’s book that I thought would best suit the variables that I was working with; the “four personality traits” (Ch6), a “blitz” version of AFECT (Ch6) and the Reticular Formation (Ch8).
While talking with Fatimah, I pointed out a woman crossing the street carrying numerous bags while also pushing a stroller. Fatimah mentioned that she was probably a single mother who was just looking to make “ends meet” while taking care of her family. Utilizing that information, I was able to quickly ascertain that Fatimah was a Caretaker. After talking further, and using a lot of right-brain language, I found out that Fatimah was a stay-at-home mom, a wife, and a daughter who checked on her parents multiple times a week. This confirmed the personality trait and therefore her motivation: to help others in need. Ultimately, I opened my recruitment pitch by taking the role of being in need of Fatimah’s help and that she was the only person who was in the position to help me. This approach, along with a promise of “assistance”, not money, for her and her family, resulted in a successful recruitment and a successful case outcome.

#2 A common way I apply Behavioral Programming is putting people in a good mood. Almost anyone will respond positively to an observant compliment so that is usually what I go for. This can be anything from mentioning the effort your boss has put into organization to complimenting a girl on her hair. A good example is this morning when my girlfriend was in a bad mood so I told her I was impressed by her dedication to education. The rest of the day went smoothly as a result and the same tactic can be used with nearly anyone with a similar outcome.

 

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#3 I use the approaches in Behavioral Programming literally every single day. The four cornerstones of building rapport are essential to any successful relationship, no matter if we are talking about long, or short, term ones. Two examples come to mind, with Siding Goals being opposite for each. These happened to me.

In the first situation, I was in Cabo, having ridden my motorcycle down there. I had a couple of tequila’s at a restaurant about a block from my hotel and wanted to call it a night. Mexico has a law that requires you to have a helmet if you are on a bike. It apparently doesn’t specify that you have to be wearing it, but you have to have it on you. There were bikes everywhere and every one of them had helmets strapped to the back but no one was wearing one. Anyway, I got on my bike for the one block ride to my hotel, no helmet with me, and was immediately pulled over by the policia. I was informed of my infraction and told that I would have to go to the station and pay a fine. I was polite and friendly and told the officer that I was tired and I was sure he had better things to do than all of that paperwork (Common Enemy). I was happy to go with him, though, but, was there a way to pay the fine on site and avoid an inconvenience for us both? (Siding Goals) Then I apologized to him for breaking the law, asked him if he was a motorcycle enthusiast and mentioned how frustrating it must be to deal with clueless tourists all the time. I mentioned that I used to live in a tourist town and we talked about how annoying tourists could be. (Agreement). He had me follow him to a parking lot and we took care of the “fine” and I threw in an extra 100 pesos for my new “friend” as a “courtesy”. (Random Favor) At the end of the day, I rode away, still without a helmet, with very little drama.

 

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Behavioral Programming Book

My latest book, Behavioral Programming; The Manipulation of Social Interaction, is now available through Amazon, and will soon be in the ITunes bookstore. This book comes from 6 years of research that started out as a program designed to enable  US Special Operations personel to acquire human assets  and solicit help quickly behind enemy lines.

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Behavioral Programming is the only influence/manipulation/programming system out there that can work completely through multimedia only.  With this system of psychology you can alter a persons behavior entirely through texting!  No face to face is needed.  No human contact is needed.  No vocal exchange is needed for this to work completely.  In fact, often times it is advantageous to do so.  Think about this, many times when face to face with someone you have said something that you meant, but smiled, chuckled, and/or made a funny face while saying it.  That told the other person that you were embarrassed to say it and that you would not stick to it, you really didnt mean it.  Your body language and tone of voice gave away your weakness.  When you deliver programming via text messages, there is no self sabatage with those things because they are taken out of the picture.  You can say what you mean, and the other person will not be distracted by your physical antics that take meaning and seriousness away from your words.

Behavioral Programming works at the most basic natural and subconscious level to program behavior where it begins, in the brain.  What you say, and the context that you say it in has all the meaning.  Your tone of voice may help or hurt your true emphasis on your words, but is not needed at all.  You understand all the books you read without someone reading them to you, and they can to.  This system of psychoprogramming is so effective that it works through the air via phone text or email.  Using texting to program someone is like having a wireless router to their head for remote brain hacking.  It gives us the direct access we need to them without actually having to be with them or even see the person.

Nothing out there has been taught like this.  The human brain is a computer, learn to hack that and you can program it to do anything.  Learning the code is the key, and the code is Behavioral Programming.

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A special thank you to:

Dr. Abdullah Alwardi-Consulting

Dr. Jeff Jenkins-Consulting

Lee Andrews-Editing/marketing

My Wife-support

Allen Curry-artwork

Ty Cunningham-Technical assistance

Kevin Reeve-Developement/research/editing

Matthew Fiddler-Consulting

Organic psychology; Our relationship ecosystem

Organic psychology, behavioral programmingBehavioral Programming is organic psychology.  Its an all natural, organic, green and healthy way to enter and code a persons brain for specific behavior and responses.  We look at our relationships with others as a complete ecosystem in itself.  Because Behavioral Programming works off of the two pillars, honesty and mutual benefit this makes the alterations that we are doing natural and easy.

Our lives are all intertwined with each others. Look at your relationships with others as its own ecosystem.  It can be fragile, complex, and requires appropriate action.  Its natural, and things will naturally happen.  Things really start to go off track when you introduce foreign chemicals into the ecosystem.  Foreign chemicals are things that will not naturally mix with our ecosystem.  Chemicals will unnaturally alter our ecosystem and the way it functions.  Chemicals in our relationships are things such as deceit, greed, and all other techniques and emotions that we use on people in our attempt to manipulate their behavior that is not organic.  Things that are organic work in harmony with our system and things flow with nature.  Many books have been written on how to manupulate and influence people by introducing “chemicals” into their relationship ecosystem.  Unnatural and unhealthy ways to forcing people to do what you want them to do.  This is not only unnecessary, but is harmful to our natural cycle of things.  Behavioral Programming works by coding the brain with natural and instinctive impulses and behavior.  It works from the most primal form so it is all natural and healthy for them and us.  As with anything we wish to accomplish, there are many ways to do it.  Usually you find that there is only one correct way to get it done.  Many other ways exist, but only one will be the best choice and produce the best outcome.  There are many ways to alter a persons behavior and responses, but what we do is natural, healthy and green.

Using other methods to manipulate others behavior is like dumping bleach and toxins into the river.  It will have unforeseen, and unnatural repercussions to that person and your relationship with them.

Keep your relationships natural and healthy.  You can get the results you want by going green. Other ways that do not work through natural and healthy methods will not acheive the long term success that you desire for both of you.  Foreign “chemicals” will be unpredictable outside of very specific circumstances.  Learn to code the brain naturally, and everyone involved will be happy and benefit.

Organic psychology is using the natural stream of information flow to program a person for a healthy response.